Thursday, 29 August 2013

Musings from the bower 45


MUSINGS FROM THE BOWER 45



 
 

In case anyone is wondering, I am still brooding in my bower but have been unable to post due to my browser suddenly becoming incompatible with Blogger! Not being of technical mind, I had to wait till my son could come and sort out my computer. However, at last, it is back on track, and I can woffle again! The bower is still pretty, and although the clematis has now ceased flowering, the honeysuckle is a mass of crimson berries and there is a passion flower and a mock orange, though the latter, also, has no blooms now.  Nearby are some buddleia bushes (which nowadays we are meant to refer to, for some scientific reason, as ‘buddleja’), one deep purple and another white. These are large bushes.  There is also a tub containing two patio buddleias, one white and the other pale mauve. The other day I noticed a beautiful pale yellow buddleia in a garden – gosh, I’d love one of those. We are certainly having a ‘Butterfly Summer’ – the garden has been full of butterflies drinking their fill on the buddleias, especially peacocks, large and small whites, commas and small tortoiseshells.

 
 





We visited Anglesey Abbey, near Cambridge recently, just to walk around the grounds. They were beautiful as always. The dahlia garden was a riot of colour, as was the herbaceous garden, and the white-trunked birches in the winter garden bore pale green leaves, looking so pretty when the sun shone through them. The mill stream was green with duckweed, and there were plenty of yellow water lilies with their large, butter-cup like flowers and thick oval leaves, perfect for moorhens to walk across. Which they were – there was a family of moorhens and their babies happily mooching about the greenery on the stream.  Some of the dogwood seems to have been cleared away in the grassy area by the river, making it easier to get to the small pond nearby. The cyclamen will be out very soon; a few were already showing pink along the paths, a reminder that autumn is on its way. We decided not to visit the house this time, but it is an interesting place, well worth looking round if you haven’t done so.

 


Polecat at the British Wildlife Centre
Young red squirrel at the British Wildlife Centre






 
 
 
 
 
 
 

A couple of weeks ago we went to one of my ‘special places’ – the British Wildlife Centre at Lingfield, Surrey. Red squirrels climbed up my legs and over my arms, and I spent a long while watching a stoat running in and out of a hole. A baby polecat slumbered in the sun, otters chased each other in their lake and across the grass, an enormous marsh frog grinned vacantly and the wildcat kittens were gorgeous – though, as their keeper explained, they inherited the wildness and they could not be handled or even touched. We bought sandwiches in the café, and then took them along to the picnic tables near the roe deer enclosure, as it was such a lovely day. Later, we walked through the wetlands trail, along the new boardwalk, seeing quite a lot of butterflies and birds.

 





 I’ve seen quite a few butterflies and dragonflies lately, with trips to Hatfield Forest and to Wicken Fen. On one of my tips to Wicken, which is near Ely, Cambs, the boardwalk had a peacock butterfly every couple of feet, and as I walked along, they would spiral up and settle behind me. Dragonflies were abundant, many of them coupling or egg-laying, while some enormous ones swooped, reminiscent of early fighter planes! At Hatfield Forest a tiled roof was a suntrap for small tortoiseshell butterflies that flattened their wings against the warm tiles so that their bodies absorbed the heat trapped underneath them. The thistles had decided to seed, so there were swirls of thistledown – very pretty, though it made me a bit sniffy as I suffer from hay fever. Through the trees we glimpsed a group of fallow deer, the sun illuminating the white spots on their backs and showing off the bold black and white markings on their tails.

 



On the 17th August, my daughter and I were up very early as we had to drive to Coventry and set up our Doll Showcase stall (we produce a quarterly doll magazine) at a doll and toy fair. The fair went off very well, and it was interesting to see the old toys. I bought a small wooden piano, just like one I had as a child – I can still play ‘Pease Pudding Hot’ on it! I also bought a toy washing machine and cooker. The washing machine is made of a heavy type of metal, with a mangle attached with sharp rivets while the cooker is made from tinplate. It always amuses me to think of how we played with such ‘dangerous’ toys as children – no one worried about sharp edges in those days – and we survived.  I was reading the other day that German kindergarten children climb trees at school – I can’t imagine ‘elf and safety’ allowing that here!

 


Over the bank holiday my husband was demonstrating a railway layout at the model railway club near Hoddesdon, Herts, of which he is a member. It was the club’s open day and was very well attended. There were lots of model railways there as well as a ride-on train for youngsters, a tombola and an excellent refreshments stall, which was doing a roaring trade. There were model boats being sailed around the boating lake, too. My daughter and I went to see how he was getting on, he had a queue of children waiting for a go to operate his train. It struck me as a quintessentially British affair – all it needed was a few Morris dancers and the thwack of a cricket ball on willow!

 When I visited my son recently I left my trainers behind. (My son has a cream carpet and so is very fussy about footwear! So I took a pair of lightwiight canvas shoes to slip into but went home wearing them.) Next time I visited, he was away and we had called in to water the garden and of course to collect the trainers. I searched and couldn't find them at first - then discovered this box obviously waiting for me. My son has a strange sense of humour - I wonder who he inherited that from?!

 
 
 
 

 


Sunday, 4 August 2013

From the bower 44



MUSINGS FROM THE BOWER 44
 

The bower is looking beautiful at the moment, with clematis and honeysuckle all around, and a gorgeous double-flowered mock orange shrub nearby. At night the area is illuminated with multi-coloured fairy lights, and sitting there, enjoying the evening scents that waft across, listening to the gentle splashing from the fountain, gazing at the little pond which is also prettily illuminated (some might say tackily!) is bliss. My haven, my own little mini palace  – which leads on quite nicely to a recent outing, a trip to the Coronation Festival Event that was held in the gardens of Buckingham Palace.

The Coronation of Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II took place on June 2nd 1953, and sixty years later, a unique four day event gathered together representatives from those companies which are holders of the Royal Warrant, to showcase their work. The Royal Warrant is granted to those who have supplied products or services for at least five years to the Royal Households of HM The Queen, HRH The Duke of Edinburgh or HRH The Prince of Wales.




A couple of weeks ago I went to this Coronation Festival, which was held in the gardens of Buckingham Palace. I was thrilled to go through the palace gates that are normally barred to the public, and to step onto the vast lawn which sported marquees displaying an amazing assortment of products that met with Royal approval. These included equestrian items, posh cars, biscuits, books, tailored clothing, umbrellas, glass crystal, carriages, shoes, jewellery, hats and welly boots! Most people had dressed up for the occasion – not formally, but ladies sported pretty frocks whist the gents wore shirts and slacks, rather than jeans. After all, it isn’t every day that you visit Buckingham Palace.

One of the companies represented was responsible for sweeping the chimneys of the royal residences, and so there were a couple of traditional chimney sweeps riding around the grounds on their bicycles, complete with soot smattered faces and sweeps’ brushes. Of course, I couldn’t resist having my photo taken with them. I haven’t seen a proper chimney sweep since I was a child, when, with great excitement, I would watch from our garden as the brush suddenly appeared from the chimney pot.

Also on display were a selection of items used in the making of the Harry Potter films – there was a golden snitch, the sword of Gryffindor, Hermione’s time turner necklace and, naturally, a broomstick that hung from the ceiling all ready for a game of Quidditch.  This were a very popular exhibit, as was the House of Glass which depicted interior design over the last sixty years – the outside of the ‘house’ was made from mirrored glass that gleamed in the sunshine. I wasn’t the only one who used the glass to take a self-portrait!
The palace gardens were beautiful, with deep herbaceous borders filled with flowers. I was particularly taken by the masses of blue delphiniums. The scent of sweet peas and lilies drifted across, and everything was immaculate. There was a large lake with a heron, moorhens and ducks, and some interesting trees – but oh, it was so hot, walking around in the sun. Eventually we found a seat under a tree and ate delicious strawberry ice-creams.

Lavender Farm



A few days later found my daughter and I in Norfolk, at another royal residence, Sandringham. This time though we weren’t exploring the house (which is extremely beautiful and certainly worth a visit) but just calling in at the Sandringham visitors’ centre which we tend to use as ‘a base’ when we are in that part of the world. You can get a snack or meal in the excellent restaurant, buy plants or attractive gifts in the shops, and, best of all, just sit and while away the time with an ice cream – there are plenty of benches around the complex. You can even take a fascinating, if somewhat bumpy, tractor ride around the estate, complete with a commentary from the driver.  When it is  really hot we have been known to just sit under the trees with a book, a delightfully lazy way of spending a summer’s day.

Pensthorpe
On the hottest day of the year, we visited Pensthorpe nature reserve, near Fakenham. It’s a wonderful place to go to, there are hundreds of ducks and geese to see, as well as a wildflower meadow, shady woodlands, lakes and streams. Butterflies and dragonflies abounded. We also visited the lavender farm at Hencham, and the lavender garden in front of the main centre was stunning – rows of lavender-coloured, lavender-scented, lavender bushes, all buzzing with bees!

The next day we roamed Hunstanton beach, searching for pretty shells, stones or fossils. Although it was hot, every-so-often it rained a little, but – hey, we’re British! We ignored the rain, as did everyone else, and just continued walking on the beach, eating ice creams or sitting on the prom.  We also called in at Caithness Glass in King’s Lynn, which always has colourful treasures. You can sometimes watch glass being blown there, too.

Wicken Fen
On the way back home we detoured to Wicken Fen near Cambridge– yet again, it was hot. The weather is really spoiling us at the moment. This area is especially renowned for its dragonflies, and it certainly didn’t disappoint. There were hundreds of them, in shimmering shades of turquoise, blue, green and red. Butterflies abounded too, and it was so peaceful walking along the boardwalk through the reed beds. Wicken Fen is a National Trust property and certainlyyet another great place to visit.

Even so, it was lovely to reach home again, back to the garden and, of course, to the bower. The buddleias are in full bloom and attracting several species of butterflies, while family of great tits is regularly visiting the feeders. How good it is to feel the sun, enjoy the flowers and gaze at that blue, cloudless sky – I do love summer, even though it makes me extremely lazy!


Friday, 5 July 2013

MUSINGS FROM THE BOWER 43

MUSINGS FROM THE BOWER 43


View from the flat


I deserted the bower for a week to stay in North Wales, such a beautiful area with magnificent scenery and lot of places to visit. We were staying in Portmadoc, in a flat alongside the tidal Afon Glaslyn, right near the bridge which the West Highland Railway now runs across on its journey to Caernarvon. These steam trains make the journey a few times a day depending on the season, and we enjoyed watching them from the window.


Portmeirion



Portmeirion
The weather wasn’t particularly good – we had several rainy days, but then Wales needs the rain to make all those streams and waterfalls impressive, as well as to keep the glorious countryside green and fresh. One of the places we visited was Portmeirion,  a favourite place of mine, which was designed by Sir Clough Williams-Ellis in the 1920/60s as an Italianate village. It’s very beautiful and is where the cult tv series 'The Prisoner was filmed a few decades ago.  Each time I visit I am struck by the peaceful atmosphere of the village. However many visitors there are, somehow the surrounding hills and trees absorb the noise. I always try to visit on a sunny day, because then the blues, pinks and golds of the buildings really come to life, glowing in the light. The gardens are colourful, there are plenty of places to sit, and the trickling of the fountains and the singing of the birds makes for blissful relaxation.



Beddgelert

                                                                   
Wood shop Beddgelert
Another favourite place of mine is Beddgelert, named after ‘Gelert’, who, according to legend was a brave dog, slain in error. The story goes that Llewelyn, a prince of North Wales, went hunting, leaving his dog, Gelert, at his home. When he returned, Gelert rushed towards him covered in blood, and the Prince was horrified to discover that his son’s cot was empty. He thought the dog had killed his son and slayed him with his sword. Then he heard a baby’s cry, and found his son next to the body of a wolf that the brave dog had killed. Today, a monument marks the faithful dog’s resting place. This very pretty village has a stream flowing through the centre, and many old cottages.I love to sit on the wall by the river, watching the swallows and looking out for grey wagtails.The village also has a few shops, one of which is a woodcraft shop. At one time, all the items were made on the premises but nowadays, wooden goods are brought in. There are some intriguing things there, notably beautiful carvings of British birds, some of which came home with me. Outside the shop are two large and impressive wood sculptures, one of an eagle the other of a dragon. The other thing that I like about Beddgelert is its award-wining ice cream parlour, which sells all kinds of delicious flavours of ices and sorbets, all made on the premises!

Aberglaslyn Pass



Welsh Highland Railway
Naturally, one day we made the return trip from Portmadoc to Caernarvon on the Welsh Highland Railway – it takes 2 ½ hours each way, with a break at Caernarvon. It is possible to leave the train there and catch one a couple of hours later, but we decided to go back on the same train as it was a wet day and we have been to Caernarvon many times before. The train runs through the Aberglaslyn Pass - a narrow gorge with a fast-flowing river – as well as through Snowdonia, so the scenery is amazing. The wild flowers, in particular, were impressive – masses of foxgloves, moon daisies, dog roses, red campion, cottongrass, and even some late bluebells. The railway was originally closed before the war, and the track removed. During the early 1990s we – my husband, our two (then young) children and I – walked through the 280 metres long, deserted Aberglasyn tunnel. It was pitch black, and we didn’t have torches – I was so relieved when we saw daylight at the far end. Now, though, the track has all been re-laid and the trains once more can travel through the tunnel.


Ffestiniog

We also rode on the Ffestiniog steam train railway to Blaenau, a journey we have taken many times over the years and one I never tire of - the railway looks down on deep wooded valleys, it's stunning. The Ffestiniog journey is a 27 mile round trip, which runs along the cob – the mile-long embankment across the Glaslyn estuary – before climbing up to Blaenau, the slate mining town. It’s a single track narrow gauge railway.


Llyn Gwynant

There was plenty of wildlife to see, too – lots of birds on the river, lakes, estuary and along the coast as well as at the RSPB Glaslyn Osprey project. The scenery was stunning, and we kept stopping along the route (luckily, around Snowdonia there are plenty of viewpoint parking places) to admire the views, especially of the mountains and the deep valleys. No wonder we keep returning to this beautiful place.


Snowden

 




Friday, 21 June 2013

MUSINGS FROM THE BOWER 42


When I was a teen – many moons ago – the pop music of the time was mainly the beat groups, such as The Beatles. However, immediately before that, there was a time when solo artists dominated the charts. This was the music that I loved when I was at primary school and in the first couple of years of secondary school, when artists such as Elvis, Bobby Vee, Cliff Richard, Mark Wynter, Marty Wilde, Roy Orbison, Eden Kane and many others were producing songs with catchy tunes and lyrics. Nowadays, this music is the backbone of all those sixties compilations that you hear played in the shops.

It’s easy to make fun of that kind of music today, and many people do but at least all those artists could sing without resorting to voice enhancers, and the musicians would perform on stage with just basic equipment, playing live, not miming.  When the groups came along, it was a different kind of music.  The Beatles changed the whole scenario – here was a group, not just one solo singer, and the music scene altered dramatically. Within months, the solo singers were finding the going tough. Many changed track, moving into acting, song writing or record production, while a few managed to stay the course by altering their style.

Over the last few years there has been a huge nostalgia revival, with ‘retro’ being the in-word, and people of all ages seeking out 1960s’ fabrics, furniture, clothing, pop art – and rediscovering the music. A series of cds appeared, called ‘Dreamboats and Petticoats’, containing music from the era, sung by the original artists, and these proved so popular that a musical was written, based on the early sixties. Set ‘in a youth club somewhere in Essex’ the musical Dreamboats and Petticoats is a story of young love, told in a clever way using the music of the time. Laura, a gawky schoolgirl, is a talented musician and she loves Bobby, but he thinks of her just as his friend’s kid sister. The youth club form a group and need a lead singer. Bobby wants the job, but then along comes Norman with his quiff and curled lip, and many of the girls fall for him. One of the girls, Sue, ultra glam in low cut frocks and a seductive wriggle, tries to make Norman interested but he ignores her so she flirts with Bobby to make Norman jealous. Naturally, this also upsets Laura, who has been attempting to write a song with Bobby for a talent contest. The show is funny, laced with sixties references from Wagon Wheel biscuits to ‘O’il Give it Five’, and the songs are woven, often humorously, around the events, including an anguished Bobby who mistakenly pushes Sue out of his bedroom window and promptly sings in horror, ‘There goes my Baby’! (Part of a Roy Orbison song).

Mark Wynter in the 1960s
One of the best things about the show, apart from the feel-good factor, is that all the singing and all the music is played live at every performance – which takes some doing when the performers are also dancing frantically. In fact a couple of girls somehow manage to play the saxophones while dancing, rocking and twisting! I’ve seen the show twice so far – I saw it just before Christmas in the West End, and it is now touring, so I caught up with it in Cambridge. The youth club leader is played by Mark Wynter, who was a huge star in the early 1960s with songs such as Venus in Blue Jeans, Go Away Little Girl, It’s Almost Tomorrow and many others.  Cannily, when he saw how the groups were taking over the music scene, he switched to acting, over the years getting to play roles in musicals such as Cats, Barnum and Phantom as well as serious dramas.  I’ve known Mark since the early sixties, and was so pleased when, at the end of the show, they announced that they had a real pop singer in their midst, and he came on – as himself – to sing some of his hits. I was rushed back through time!  After the show we chatted for a long time.


Mark and I after the show

A couple of weeks previously, I had been at another concert. This one was by someone who continued his singing career, bouncing back time and again after people said he was ‘finished’. Today, he’s a national treasure, an icon with thousands upon thousands of fans across the globe – through strangely, still hasn’t managed to crack America.  Of course, I’m talking about Cliff Richard – or Sir Cliff as he is often referred to nowadays – and he was holding a concert at an open air venue at Hatfield House, Hertfordshire.  The concert was entitled ‘Still Reelin` and A-Rockin`’.
The Military Wives Choir

The show began with the Military Wives choir who performed several songs, including a wartime medley. This choir is formed by wives, partners and service women of British Military personnel, located around Britain. They were excellent, and they ended with the Jubilee song, ‘Sing’ written by Gary Barlow and Andrew Lloyd Weber.

A short break – you could feel the tension and the  rising anticipation. Suddenly – there he was. Cliff bounded on stage resplendent in a scarlet jacket and denim jeans. For the next hour and a half he worked his way through his hits – Move It, Livin’ Doll, Devil Woman, In the Country, The Young Ones, Miss You Night, We Don’t Talk Anymore, Please Don’t Tease, and my personal favourite, Wired For Sound. The hits just kept on coming.
He danced, spun, jumped – I was exhausted watching him! At the end – standing ovations –of course, he came back again, and again, and again. It was as though he didn’t want to go, and naturally, we didn’t want him to go either. It was a magical evening, quite warm and amazingly not raining, and sitting there amidst thousands of happy people, all thrilled to have seen Cliff in action, was better than any tonic a doctor could have prescribed. Anyone who thinks that Cliff is ‘past it’ would have changed their mind had they been there that night!





Sunday, 16 June 2013

MUSINGS FROM THE BOWER 41




This week I fed lemurs and lorikeets, had lunch in a café with a view of tigers from the window, watched a flying display of hawks and owls and saw a group of otters munching minced meat. Yes, I was back at Paradise Wildlife Park, Broxbourne. My husband and I were taking part in a ‘Lemur Experience’, which lets you spend half an hour inside the lemurs enclosure, feeding them with fruit.


We were given large bowls containing chopped fruit as well as some biscuits, and we sat inside the cage holding the bowls on our laps. Instantly the ring-tailed lemurs were upon us, perching on our laps or shoulders, using their long fingers to delicately take a piece of apple and then hold it to their mouth as they nibbled. Lemurs are beautiful creatures; like monkeys, they are primates but unlike them their long tails are not prehensile, they are just used for balance. It’s a very special thing to be close to such lovely animals, and though you are advised not to stroke them, the feel of their soft fur against your cheek as they rest against your head is super.  Their keeper, a young lady called Daisy, came in with us to take photos and to answer all our questions. Like many of the other keepers, she began as a volunteer before being taken on as a paid member of staff. All the staff I met at Paradise Wildlife Park obviously enjoy their jobs, and their love for animals shines through. They work long hours – they can’t just pack up and go when the visitors leave, as the animals must still be cared for – but it can be a rewarding job for those with a genuine feel for wildlife.


The display of hawks and owls, as well as a large red and gold macaw and a couple of lovebirds was excellent and entertaining. A barn owl swooped from post to post and a large Harris hawk demonstrated its enormous wingspan. Later it was the turn of  Stella, the Eagle owl. Stella is getting on a bit, and likes, naturally, to take things easy. So, instead of flying (which uses far too much energy!) she slowly plodded along the grass, giving the impression that she was in charge of her section of the display. It would begin when she said so and would end when she was ready, and not before.  So Stella sat on the fence, flew a little, deigned to collect some food, then sat, and sat, and sat until eventually she decided to go back to her cage. Apparently that part of the routine is nicknamed ‘Stella Time’ – no one knows quite how long it will last!



Feeding the lorikeets with nectar was another enjoyable event. These vividly-coloured small parakeets are beautiful, and have long tongues with tiny hair-like bristles on the tips, which help them to soak up the nectar. When we entered their aviary we were given pots of the liquid and the birds swooped down and perched on our hands and arms and, in my husband’s case, his head, and they dipped their tongues into the nectar. After having a ‘conversation’ with a cockatoo in a nearby aviary and admiring various other birds, we went to see the stunning snow leopards, cheetahs, ocelots, tigers, lions and leopards. The lions had a white cub, called Zuri, which is Swahili for ‘Beautiful’ and is also of Basque origin, where it means ‘White’.


A favourite animal of mine is the red panda, and often at zoos they tend to be curled up asleep high in a tree, but those at Paradise Wildlife Park seem to be active. Certainly, each time I visit they are climbing in the branches or feeding on the platform, munching bamboo. These sweet-faced, gentle creatures hail from south-east Asia, and although called pandas are more closely related to racoons, weasels and skunks. Nearby are the otters, they move so quickly, jostling for position as they are fed. Otters are other creatures that I could watch for hours, admiring their sleek bodies and the way that chase each other around the enclosure, seemingly full of energy.




Zoos such as Paradise Wildlife Park are a pleasure to visit – attractively laid out, plenty of trees and flowers, walkways that enable you to get different views of the animals, and enclosures containing interesting, beautiful creatures that encourage you just to ‘stand and stare’. This zoo is deeply committed to conservation, with a separate establishment in Kent (not open for general viewing) that is a haven for big cats, with many breeding successes.

What a wonderful day we had – we were even lucky with the weather. It didn’t rain (well, only a little)!









Friday, 7 June 2013


MUSINGS FROM THE BOWER 40



This blog is running late. I seem to have been rather busy what with one thing and another, plus the fact that suddenly sunshine and blue skies came along, and I certainly wasn’t going to miss out on them. The bower is coming into its own now, as the clematis is sending up clusters of pink and purple flowers and the honeysuckle will soon be in bloom. Nearby, a mock orange shrub is a mass of white-tipped buds – I love the heady scent of this plant and am eagerly waiting for the buds to open. What I would really like to get is a ‘New Dawn’ climbing rose – this rose is a very delicate shade of shell pink, and I first made its acquaintance way back in the 1950s when my Dad planted one to grow around the porch of our new house in Welwyn Garden City. We had moved from a flat in Brixton – three rooms, no bathroom, outside lavatory – to, what to us, was paradise. Now we had a garden rather than a yard where hardly anything grew and Dad discovered that he enjoyed gardening,



He also found that he enjoyed constructing things from wood, and soon our garden boasted a rustic trellis, complete with a gate, over which roses such as Paul Scarlet and Golden Showers climbed, In front, he planted bush roses, including Peace, Fragrant Cloud, Super Star, Ena Harkness, Orange Triumph and Iceberg. The creation of the garden was no mean achievement, because when we moved in, the house was new and the garden was just one solid bed of yellow clay. He learnt the names of the plants and shrubs, reading about them in a large gardening encyclopedia which was soon well-thumbed, and he taught the names to me. Out on a walk one day, he found a large branch that had snapped from a beech tree, He pushed it into the ground at the end of the garden, and much to our amazement it grew. As far as I know, the tree is still there, it must be over fifty years old now.

The apple tree that I sometimes mention in my blogs actually came from Mum and Dad’s garden. Dad planted the tree as a sapling in the 1950s, but by the early 1970s had decided that it was in the wrong place and didn’t know what to do. So my husband and I dug it up – it was quite large, but somehow we managed to transport it to our new home, and it has grown into a magnificent tree beloved by the birds and squirrels, with a beautiful crop of blossom in the spring and, most years, a large crop of eating apples. Dad planted fruit bushes – his favourites were raspberries and gooseberries, and I remember hot sunny days (it was always hot in summer when I was young, or so it seemed!), picking the gooseberries so that Mum could make pies or jam, and my hands and arms being scratched by those vicious thorns. I didn’t much mind though, and every so often I would put a gooseberry into my mouth, revelling in that slightly bitter taste that made my tongue tingle after I had crunched through the bristly skin. Dad also grew potatoes, lettuce, tomatoes and beans – he experimented with many vegetables to see which would grow best. We ate healthily in the 1950s, no ready meals or frozen vegetables then. Mum cooked everything from scratch, an on Sundays would produce a full roast dinner with apple pie or jam tart for afters. She always made two so that we had a choice of pudding.




Of course, I had my own little plot, and especially loved pansies. One year I bought some from the greengrocer – he fobbed me off with some shrivelled plants, thinking that it wouldn’t matter as I was just a small girl. He soon found that it did matter when Mum marched back to the shop with the pansies and demanded he replace them with good plants. She didn’t want my interest in gardening to disappear if I became disappointed that my pansies wouldn’t flower! I sowed seeds too – Virginia stock, night scented stock, cornflowers and love-in-a-mist. There were nasturtiums as well, although they always ended up thick with blackfly. These are old-fashioned flowers, rather like the golden rod and tall Michaelmas daisies that Dad planted along our boundary fence, and the peppery smelling lupins, clove-scented stocks and tall hollyhocks with their delicate, almost translucent flowers that he grew in the flowerbeds. He adored French marigolds, especially the clear lemon-yellow variety which he swore kept the whitefly away, and he planted white honey-smelling alyssum and light blue lobelia around the edges of the borders. He put Canterbury bells, phlox, antirrhinum, lavender and dahlias in a bed that ran along the edge of the lawn. The one flower that I really disliked was called ‘Love Lies Bleeding’ – one year Dad planted it all along the front garden, and I thought that not only was it ugly with its long, dark red, drooping tassels, but also the name was horrible!



My garden today is much smaller than that of my childhood, just about a quarter of the size, but I do cram a lot into it. Sadly, there is no room for a herbaceous border, and many of the plants and trees are grown in tubs. I always have pansies, alyssum, hollyhocks, lavender and lobelia, and scatter seeds of the ‘old-fashioned’ annuals wherever I can.  I have a variegated hosta in a tub that Dad gave me about twenty years ago – each year the snails and slugs enjoy a feast, but it fights back fresh and green every spring.  And of course, I have his apple tree. When he died, in 2000, Mum bought a red-flowered crab apple tree that she planted in a large pot in her garden. Just two-and-a half years later, she passed away as well. I brought Dad’s potted crab apple tree to my garden, and potted up a white-flowered crab apple in her memory. The two trees stand side by side, giving a beautiful display in spring and an abundant crop of crab apples in autumn. Living memorials for two people who loved flowers and gardens so much.

Red blossom for Dad.......

       
                





....and white for Mum